So you want to be a manger part 4: Becoming More Effective

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Being a manager isn’t just about bossing people around. (Though, let’s be honest, sometimes that’s a perk.) It’s about guiding a team towards success, and that takes more than just a fancy title. So, whether you’re a seasoned leader or a newly minted manager still finding your feet, here are some battle-tested tips to boost your effectiveness:

1. Communication is Key (and I Don’t Mean Just Barking Orders)

Think of yourself as a conductor leading an orchestra. You need to communicate clearly, whether you’re setting expectations, providing feedback, or just keeping everyone in the loop. And remember, communication is a two-way street. Listen actively to your team’s ideas, concerns, and feedback.

If you are introverted like myself, I highly recommend taking some classes. If you are in high school try speech and debate. If you’re in college take an Oral Communications class as an elective. I also gained a lot of communication experience by starting and leading meetup groups. For those truly dedicated to changing their life for the better, I would also recommend checking out Toastmasters.

2. Build a Team, Not Just a Group of Individuals

Foster a sense of camaraderie and shared purpose. Encourage collaboration, celebrate successes (big and small), and address conflicts constructively. A cohesive team is a force to be reckoned with.

Try to have some get-togethers outside of work. A facility trip to a ball game is always a good time. You could also do a bar-b-q in the park. The organization and preparation will definitely build teamwork skills. There is also a certain level of appreciation that comes from cooking and having a beer together. Obviously you aren’t going to become best friends with your subordinates, but they will appreciate the effort you make for everyone to have fun. Consider holiday celebrations as another event your team can look forward to. The holiday party is also a good place to pass out those bonus checks!

3. Delegate Like a Pro (and Actually Trust Your Team)

Don’t fall into the trap of trying to do everything yourself. Delegate tasks effectively, providing clear instructions and the necessary resources. And once you’ve delegated, step back and trust your team to get the job done. Micromanaging is a morale killer.

My first real management position in the military had me working 16-hour days until I discovered the power of delegation. Take the time to teach your rockstars as much as they are willing to learn. You may feel like you are replacing yourself, or teaching your way out of a job, but you need to recognise your own value. If you are good at what you do, you are unlikely to be replaced, and if you are it’s because your boss messed up. Delegating properly frees up time for you to be a happier human being. It also allows you the time to be a better manager and expand or streamline your business.

4. Be the Leader You Wish You Had

Think about the best (and worst) bosses you’ve had. What did they do that made you feel motivated, respected, and valued? Emulate those positive qualities and avoid the negative ones. Lead by example, show integrity, and treat your team with fairness and consistency.

Pay attention to the reactions of your subordinates and put yourself in their shoes. How would you react to yourself? You can keep everyone on task by practicing tact and compassion. Confident and happy employees will be more willing to perform when it counts.

5. Embrace Feedback (Even the Tough Stuff)

Nobody’s perfect, and that includes you. Actively seek feedback from your team, your peers, and your superiors. Be open to constructive criticism and use it as an opportunity to grow and improve.

It’s easy to get defensive when faced with honest criticism you don’t want to hear. If you snap back, however, you may not get that type of feedback again. Would you rather continue with the status quo ignorant of the mistakes you’re making? If so, you may wish to consider a different career path.

6. Master the Art of Prioritization

As a manager, you’ll be juggling multiple tasks and competing demands. Learn to prioritize effectively, focusing on the most important and urgent tasks first. Don’t be afraid to delegate or say “no” when necessary.

I find that it’s easier to prioritize when I make lists at the beginning of each day. I can see everything that needs to be done and use a simple numbering system to decide what to focus on first. Fires will inevitably pop up and need to be dealt with, interrupting your focus and productivity. Use your list to find your way through the smoke and get back on track again.

7. Invest in Your Team’s Growth

Your team’s success is your success. Provide opportunities for professional development, offer mentorship, and encourage your team members to stretch their skills and take on new challenges.

This comes back to taking the time to instruct your subordinates, especially the shining stars. Give them the tools for growth. Send them to the classes they need. They may even surpass you, but you can be proud of what they become and they will remember who helped make it possible.

8. Celebrate the Wins (and Learn from the Losses)

Acknowledge and celebrate your team’s accomplishments, both big and small. It boosts morale and reinforces positive behavior. And when things don’t go as planned, don’t dwell on the failures. Analyze what went wrong, learn from the experience, and move forward.

Some people do an employee of the month award with plaques or trophies for consistently exceptional employees. I used to buy gourmet pizza (yes I am a pizza snob) for my crew once a month to show my appreciation. Remember even just a sincere ‘thank you for your hard work’ can go a long way towards maintaining loyalty.

9. Find Your Leadership Style (and Don’t Be Afraid to Adapt)

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to leadership. Find a style that works for you and your team, but be willing to adapt as needed. Different situations and individuals may require different approaches.

I am definitely a proponent of the ‘read the room’ method of management. Every situation requires a different type of reaction. Sometimes I channel my inner Buddha, and sometimes (very rarely), I need to let the drill instructor out.

10. Take Care of Yourself (No, Really)

Being a manager can be demanding. Don’t neglect your own well-being. Make time for self-care, maintain a healthy work-life balance, and recharge your batteries. A burned-out manager is not an effective one.

Regular exercise and a healthy diet are key factors in overcoming stress and keeping a clear head when things get tough. Also, make sure to cultivate relationships with your peers. It gets lonely at the top and we can all use someone to talk to for the sake of our psychological well being.

Leading the Way

Being an effective manager is an ongoing process of learning, growing, and adapting. By focusing on these key principles, you can create a positive and productive work environment, empower your team to achieve their best, and ultimately, become a leader who inspires and motivates those around you. Now go out there and lead the charge!

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